Habits of a high valued woman.

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She Has Goals

Set some goals for yourselves ladies. Whether short term or long term devise a plan and stick to it. Once you focus on you and your future everything will come into place. You can change your entire life in as little as year as long as you have determination and are willing to put in the work. Do you have a schedule that you follow? Try this, take 5-10 mins in the morning to just reflect on what you want to accomplish for the day. Close the social media apps and open that to do list. Start small and work your way to accomplishing bigger goals. Get in the habit, make your goal reflection apart of your daily life. People always say “oh I wish I could do this or I wish I had that” DON’T WISH! You are in control don’t forget that! You get to decide where u want your life to go and it’s never too late. Every day is a new beginning, a fresh start. Start today! You got this!

She Has High Standards

Where you choose to set the bar is how you choose to be represented. A woman who values herself knows who to let into her circle. Not everyone should be able to get that close to you. Don’t be so accessible.  Associate with people who will elevate you and grow alongside you. Sometimes that may mean cutting off folks you’ve known for years and that’s ok. It’s no beef, we just on different paths. 

She Values Her Appearance

I can’t stress this enough. I’m sure you’ve heard the phrase “dress for the job you want not the job you have.” The same with life, present yourself how you want people to address you and this has a lot to do with your outer appearance. They say looks don’t matter, but they do. We live in a judgmental ass world. No, it’s not fair but reality is, people treat you better the more presentable you look. So why settle for anything less than the best treatment?

She Speaks With Meaning

Words are powerful so make sure you use yours to conquer. Be able to hold an intelligent conversation with confidence. Everyone loves a good debate, but don’t be petty. Pick your battles, some things just shouldn’t even be worth your time or energy. Choose your words wisely and if the conversation isn’t up to your caliber, excuse yourself because a lady always knows when to leave. Besides we don’t argue with peasants.

Educate yourself

Never stop learning!!!!! One thing no one can ever take always from you is your knowledge. You have to understand the importance in being educated in multiple fields. Knowledge is power. There are so many different educational outlets now days. Read a book, sign up for a free webinar, or even seek out a mentor. So much to learn so little time, so what you going to choose to do with yours?

Manage finances

My least favorite of all time, those damn finances. This is a very important aspects of life and one of my biggest struggles. You have to know how to manage money, how to make money, and know that investing and saving are important parts of life. Budgeting is a great way for you to experience all the things in life you enjoy.

Mind YO damn business

This has to be one of the most important points Im going to touch on. Mind yo damn business. Stop worrying about the next person and what they have going on, always in drama and other people’s lives, because at the end of the day it doesn’t educate you, it doesn’t put any money in your pocket, if anything its draining and manipulating  you. When you spend too much time enduring negativity you will shortly be sucked into that clique. You don’t want to be that gossip girl that’s always talking but never making no moves. We want to advise and uplift ourselves and the people around us. Stay away from those toxic vibes. Besides the only people that sit around and talk about other people are folks with no goals or ambition so they try to live off yours and try to break you down in the process. Some people admire attention more than progress.  Don’t be a victim to this.

Prioritize health

I can’t stress this enough ladies. We not spring chickens any more. We have to pay attention to what we put in our bodies. (I’m talking about the bums you all be dating too) Make time to work out, it’s not always about losing weight, working out gives you energy and can help lower your stress level. You should care about what foods your consuming and what energy your mate is releasing into you as well. Growing up I wasn’t educated on fitness and health but I have the opportunity now and I’m taking full advantage of it. You only get one body, one chance.

Demetrica Darnette